Why is the “pot-licker” kitchen tool called “Marisa” in Italian?

We are talking about one of the most common and indispensable kitchen tools: the rubber or silicone spatula, more commonly known in English as a “rubber spatula” or simply a “scraper”. The rubber spatula consists of a long handle, usually made of wood, steel, or rigid plastic, and a flat, soft, flexible tip, today almost … Read more

History of the adhesive bandage

History of the adhesive bandageLife, death and miracles of a device that saves both lives and honour Before beginning, it may help international readers to understand the family of words from which “sparatrap” originates. In much of Europe, the earliest form of the term was the French sparadrap, itself derived from the medieval Latin sparare … Read more

You are a good listener

For some time now I have often been told, “You are a good listener.”The remark surprises me every time. I have always listened, of course, but for many years I doubt I truly deserved the adjective “good”. And I do not think this new reputation comes from age, which sometimes leads people to mistake the … Read more

“Your stripes are earned in the sweat, son… but your honor is earned in the silence.”

(Anonymous source) Apart from the obvious military context, this aphorism separates effort from dignity, and achievement from character. Stripes come from action: the long hours, the discipline, the grind that nobody sees but everybody benefits from.Sweat leaves a visible trace. It is measurable. It is the world of deliverables, tasks, and results. Honour, instead, belongs … Read more

10 Subtle Signs That You May Be Ready to Retire

(Inspired by Bruce Horovitz,“10 Subtle Signs That You Are Ready to Retire”,Wall Street Journal, 19 November 2025) We always imagine a dramatic moment of revelation, a thunderbolt from above announcing: it is time.In reality, for most of us, no epiphany ever arrives.What we do receive are small messages, discreet yet insistent. Tiny yellow lights blinking … Read more

Money cannot buy happiness…

Money cannot buy happiness… but cannoli can, and you can buy those.

And this is where philosophy meets pastry-making.

Because, while it is true that happiness cannot be found on supermarket shelves, it is equally true that some simple pleasures have surprising power: they lift your mood, lighten your day and melt away accumulated tension.

Each man lives to rise or fall before the challenges set in his path

Each man lives to rise or fall before the challenges set in his path. Fate brings trials; it is reason and will that must respond.To rise is not triumph, nor is to fall disgrace.What matters is how we endure the test. And we must take care:“He who fights with monsters must be careful not to … Read more

Arguing with the biased

Today I learnt something simple and hard: when a discussion slips into a clash of identities, reason switches off.
We are no longer talking about ideas; we are defending tribes.
At that point you waste time and, worse, you risk losing the friend.

Why it happens

Bias and identity.
If an idea is glued to the ego, any argument feels like a personal attack.

Holding your ground: when ‘to break rather than bend’ is the right choice

Flexibility helps us negotiate and grow, but at times it slips into yielding and, with it, the renunciation of what defines us.

Flexibility is a means, not an end: it is useful until it touches the core of principles — truth, safety, dignity, legality. Beyond that line, to bend is not intelligence, it is abdication.

Reputation, built over years and lost in a minute, lives precisely on this boundary.

There is nothing noble in being superior to someone else

“There is nothing noble in being superior to someone else; true nobility lies in being superior to your former self.”
(Ernest Hemingway)

Ambition has a subtle talent: it pushes us to measure our worth against others, as if life were a ranking.

But true greatness does not come from outshining anyone; it comes from surpassing oneself — day after day, mistake after mistake.

Procrastination is totally a good thing

“Procrastination is totally a good thing.
You always have something to do tomorrow,
plus you have nothing to do today.”

After all, what is a delay if not a refined form of prioritisation?

A wise leader never rushes; they simply wait for the perfect alignment of circumstances — or, more elegantly, for someone else to act first.

A conference in Poland

Today I spoke at a conference in Poland, sharing insights from my specific field: the engineering, inspection, and maintenance of giant wind rotor blades.

Among the presentations, one particularly stood out — a talk on the 6R philosophy, a modern evolution of sustainability principles that goes far beyond the familiar “Reduce, Reuse, Recycle.”

If hard work led to success …

“If hard work led to success, the donkey would own the farm.”

But it does not.
The donkey works the hardest, from dawn to dusk, and yet remains where it started — tired, obedient, and replaceable.

The truth is that effort without vision only strengthens someone else’s dream. The donkey’s labour feeds the master’s ambition.

And that is the silent tragedy of many: they mistake productivity for purpose.

The wise man uses his knowledge when the moment has come

The wise man uses his knowledge when the moment has come.
The prudent man waits for the right moment.
The fool jumps ahead of it.
The idiot lets it pass.

(From the film Never Give Up)

The wise man speaks little, observes much, and acts when the silence of others becomes louder than words.
The prudent man waits—perhaps a little too long, but at least with style.

In Sicily, when we do something, we do it grandly — or not at all

“In Sicily, when we do something, we do it grandly — or not at all.
That is why we often do nothing.”
(Pino Caruso)

This remark is both self-irony and deep truth: in Sicily (and not only there), there exists a natural aversion to mediocrity.

Doing things “halfway” is almost an insult to one’s own pride.

The paradox is that this drive toward greatness often becomes a trap.

The “all-or-nothing” mindset leads to postponement — waiting for the perfect moment, the perfect means, the perfect conditions — which rarely ever come.

Marriage

“Marriage is when one person is always right, and the other person is a husband.”

As everyone knows, a successful marriage is simply the art of a man learning to nod, smile, and pretend his opinions matter.

Meanwhile, his wife, blessed with an innate understanding of all things (including his mistakes before he even makes them), gently guides him through life.

Italian precision — and even more so Sicilian precision — is a form of art

“See you between three and five. And please, be on time!”
(Renzino Barbera)

Italian precision — and even more so Sicilian precision — is a form of art.
Forget Einstein: we bent space and time long before relativity.

“Between three and five” is not a time. It is a state of mind.
It is an invitation to enter a temporal zone where clocks follow the rhythm of the heart and the level of post-lunch blood sugar.