A reader replied to my post from yesterday with a brilliant remark

A reader replied to my post from yesterday with a brilliant remark:

“I have elephant skin — but also an elephant memory!”

It made me smile — and think.

In leadership, that combination is more than just witty. It is essential. Thick skin protects you from petty criticism, noise, and the occasional stray arrow that comes with being visible. But memory — memory is where judgment takes root.

Thin-skinned? Then steer clear of cacti

Thin-skinned? Then steer clear of cacti.

If you are thin-skinned and take offence easily, that is your issue — and daily life must be rather challenging.

Most likely, your everyday experience is an emotional obstacle course: half-heard phrases twisted in your mind, glances misread, and inner turmoil sparked by someone who said “hello” without smiling.

Looking for a Latin teacher …

Just came across a job ad for a Latin teacher.
The post specifies that the ideal candidate must be a native speaker.

A textbook case, really, of “engage brain before opening mouth.”

(Yes, yes—I get it.
Someone probably copied and pasted the requirements from another language job post.
Still, the opportunity is far too tempting not to have a little fun with it.)

As Italy was uniting, Italians were being divided

With the unification of 1861, the Italian state was born politically, within borders broadly similar to those we know today.

But political unification did not bring with it a shared destiny. In fact, just as Italy was being made, millions of Italians began to leave it.

Official stats start in 1876. Before 1861, individual migrations had already occurred for religious, economic or political reasons. But it was only after unification that mass emigration took shape—a phenomenon that would last more than a century and profoundly transform the country’s demography, economy, and collective memory.

Apologising Across Cultures

Saying “sorry” may seem universal, but its meaning and impact vary widely across cultures. In some places, it signals guilt or weakness—especially in legal or corporate contexts. Elsewhere, it is a simple gesture of empathy or politeness, without legal implications.

In both personal and professional settings, owning up to mistakes is often respected. Many legal experts argue that the freedom to apologise without fear of reprisal fosters more open, conciliatory environments and can help avoid costly disputes.

The hot season has finally arrived…

The hot season has finally arrived… and so have its hidden perils.

To face it wisely, here is a simple but essential piece of advice:
drink plenty of water and, if you can, avoid going out between 8 a.m. … and 31 October.

No, that is not a mistake—it is just an ironic way of saying that, with this kind of weather, staying cool until autumn might be the smartest option.

Occam’s Razor

Occam’s Razor

William of Occam, a 14th-century Franciscan friar, left us a principle as self-evident as it is often ignored:
“Entia non sunt multiplicanda praeter necessitatem.”
In plain English:
“Do not multiply entities beyond necessity.”

Today, this principle is widely used in scientific, logical, and investigative contexts, often expressed as:
“All else being equal, the simplest explanation is to be preferred.”

A man is not great because he has never failed; he is great because failure has never stopped him

“A man is not great because he has never failed; he is great because failure has never stopped him.”

This quote overturns the idea that greatness lies in perfection. True greatness is not the absence of failure, but the refusal to be defeated by it.

At its core, this reflects two opposing worldviews.

How to Make Eye Contact That Leaves a Lasting Impression

Around the world, people use their faces and bodies to communicate just as much as their words. In Italy—especially in the South—gestures and expressions are woven into the rhythm of conversation. In contrast, cultures like Japan and China rely on more restrained body language, where even silence and stillness carry meaning.

Yet despite these wide differences, one form of nonverbal communication is universal: eye contact.

Diplomacy is the art of sending someone to hell in such a way that they ask for directions

“Diplomacy is the art of sending someone to hell in such a way that they ask for directions.”

This witticism hides a serious truth: diplomacy is the ability to express difficult or confrontational messages with such tact and timing that the other party not only accepts them, but may even follow your lead.

At heart, diplomacy is the management of relationships through dialogue, persuasion, and discretion. It is not the denial of truth, but the mastery of its delivery. It aims to advance interests, resolve conflicts, and foster understanding—without open confrontation.

I shall die young

Ever since I turned thirty, I have often said — part joke, part confession — “I shall die young.”

It was the sort of remark that would bring a hush to the room.
Some laughed awkwardly, others quickly changed the subject, unsure whether to hear it as dark humour or quiet melancholy.
Most dismissed it as a touch of theatrical flair — the kind of thing one says to sound poetic or profound.

But I was never joking.

I never meant to predict an early death, nor to indulge in fatalism.
It was a declaration of intent — a stubborn refusal to let the soul grow old, even as the body, inevitably, would.

If it is not broken, do not fix it

If it is not broken, do not fix it

Today’s reflection connects naturally to yesterday’s thought on the permanence of the provisional.

This saying, with its seemingly straightforward, almost engineering-like clarity, in fact contains a pragmatic, conservative — and at times dangerous — philosophy.
Its concise form is a call for caution: if something works, even imperfectly, it is best not to interfere.

Stupidity is infinitely more fascinating than intelligence

“Stupidity is infinitely more fascinating than intelligence — infinitely deeper. Intelligence has its limits; stupidity has none.”

(Claude Chabrol)

Chabrol suggests that stupidity is fascinating not because of any redeeming quality, but because of its unpredictability.

Intelligence, however brilliant, tends to follow rules, logic, and structure.
Stupidity does not: it is anarchic, capricious, without proportion.
And for precisely that reason, it can surprise, disorient, even attract those who view the world as a theatre of the absurd.

People do not stay because they must.They stay because it matters.

People do not stay because they must.
They stay because it matters.

( a.k.a. When work becomes a profession, the profession shapes the soul of the company)

Working in a company for many years means much more than acquiring skills: it means entering into a relationship with an identity—and helping to shape it.

The Beginning of Summer and Mobile Phones

Inspired by Melissa Kirsch’s “Season Opener” (The New York Times, June 21, 2025)

Today is the year’s longest day.
Tonight will be its shortest night.

Summer has begun—not the calendar’s version, but the real one: sun-drenched, sweat-slicked, fragrant with sunscreen and smoke from a distant grill. The air thickens. The heat gathers. It is time to plunge into water, to float, to swim, to feel coolness wrap itself around your skin like a brief absolution.

Instinctive Caution: How Pain Becomes Proverb

Every culture has recognised a simple truth: when we are hurt, we become cautious. And when the pain is sharp enough, the lesson is remembered instinctively — not as theory, but as reflex.

Language, with its gift for memory and metaphor, has captured this in strikingly similar ways across the world.

Greeks and Turks

Turkish and Greek cultures, despite their long history of rivalry and political tension, share a deep well of cultural proximity rooted in centuries of geographical coexistence, Ottoman legacy, and Mediterranean lifeways.

Their cultural nearness is paradoxical, layered, and often obscured by nationalist narratives, but it is undeniable.

Greeks and Turks often see each other through a mirror of rivalry and resemblance. They might bristle at comparisons, but deep down many recognise how familiar the “other” feels — in gestures, humour, music, and mannerisms.